I first encountered this question when my son and I were playing a card game that includes brain teasers. Read More
How Does Social Connection Help?
I think one of the things that has been hardest for many of us throughout this past year is Read More
Heat Domes, and an Ounce of Prevention
As I’m writing this, I am not practicing what I’m about to preach. I’m sitting in my third-floor, south-facing Read More
Harmful Judgments
A couple of weeks ago, I finished reading the book by Randy Shilts, And the Band Played On, about Read More
Guilt and apologies continued
In DBT, one of the interpersonal effectiveness skills involves avoiding over apologizing (part of the FAST skills). The reasoning Read More
Guilt and apologies
We live in a society known for apologizing. There is a stereotype of Canadians being apologetic about all sorts Read More
Getting to the Essence of the Problem
A couple of years ago, I was in a coffee shop with some people, describing how, as I’ve gotten Read More
Getting Around: Use Your Brain
On a recent trip, I began to think a lot about the merits of the old-fashioned map. To get Read More
Fruit and Dessert
Some people enjoy fruit after dessert. I’m not one of those people. I usually have a small dessert after Read More